The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck. Gift Edition: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life Hardcover – July 1, 2019

As someone who has given far too many f***s about far too many things their entire life, this book was exactly the wake up call I needed. Even as a child in elementary school, I would have a miniature meltdown when I got a bad grade or if a friend was mean to me that day. As an adult, I got better at hiding these emotional upheavals and intense reactions to the world around me, but they never really went away with my maturity like I had hoped. I took to heart every disheartening news article I read and every crappy thing that happened to me at work or in school. I'd let it consume me, because I was never told to live life any other way or that controlling my reactions was even remotely possible; I thought it was just a permanent part of my personality. I always knew that it was more of a vice than a virtue, but I felt like I couldn't fully control it.Mark Manson's The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*** employs a witty use of profanity laced with satirical comedy that's bursting with philosophical wisdom. Much of Manson's inspiration originates from nihilists, Buddhists, Albert Camus, and Charles Bukowski, but he brings those philosophies into a more modern and palatable perspective. He reminds us that life is too short to react so passionately about every little thing. We have a limited emotional capacity, and we often squander it on reactions to mean-spirited people or unfortunate events, completely forgetting that, although we can't control the world around us, we can control ourselves. This book has empowered me to exercise control over my reactions.Shortly after reading this book, my husband commented at how "zen" I've become. I'm no longer angrily venting to him about all of the various ways the world upsets me. I still allow myself to feel and talk about things that bother me (I'm not aiming to achieve nirvana as a Buddhist monk), but petty things no longer have a hold on me. I let the negativity wash over me now without letting it absorb into my soul, and my life has been much more enjoyable as a result.I was so inspired by this book and its philosophy, that I wanted a permanent reminder for myself to further ensure that I use my f***s wisely from now onward. For my birthday, I got this simple, but meaningful tattoo on my right wrist. The ∞ symbol reminds me of the infinite nature of time and outer space, and the 0 on the bottom represents humanity's relevance to time and space as a whole. It can also be translated as don't make something (∞) out of nothing (0) or a reminder that there are infinite opportunities to give a f***, but that I will remain steadfast in giving 0 f***s about things that don't really matter.If you're the type of person who's struggled to keep their temper in line or if you're like me and you find yourself on an emotional roller-coaster because you take every event in the world and within your own life to heart, I strongly encourage you to read this book. If profanity is so much of a problem for you, that you can't tolerate reading the first half of this book (the last half is much less profane) you're probably too narrow-minded to have taken away any of the many philosophical benefits this book offers.

I guessed from the title that this would be a silly little book, but I was wrong. It’s EXTREMELY profound and very helpful – and best of all very approachable. It talks about a lot of philosophy and religion, and even psychology - without all of the complicated rhetoric that often ruined that kind of book. It is extremely easy to understand, and actually fun to read.One of the things I enjoyed most is that the author was not full of himself. He admitted his own frailties and weaknesses. He never put himself fourth as an “expert.” He. was very respectful of his readers.Warning, though, as the name implies, the book is sprinkled with profanity. If this is a sensitivity for you, it might not be the right book for you.

This book has confirmed that everything I have been doing is right on! I have recommended it to everyone! I no longer feel weird for being happy or different cause I see the big picture. It has also taught me that I am aloud to be upset at the things that really matter to me.Thank you!

What I liked about this book the most, is that it is based on authors real life events, experiences, discoveries and revelations. All this being conveyed in a frank, humorous and very comprehensible and relatable manner. Though it might feel a bit abruptly at the end, there's a sequel and I'm definitely intend to read it.

I recently read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" by Mark Manson and I have to say, it's one of the best self-help books I've ever read. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for a refreshing and practical approach to personal growth and self-improvement.What I love most about this book is its no-nonsense, straightforward approach to life. Manson doesn't sugarcoat anything or offer any quick fixes - instead, he encourages readers to take a hard look at their values, priorities, and beliefs, and to embrace the inevitable struggles and challenges that come with life.Manson's writing style is engaging, humorous, and relatable. He uses personal anecdotes, real-life examples, and scientific research to back up his points, making the book both informative and entertaining to read. I found myself nodding along and highlighting passages throughout the entire book.But beyond just its entertainment value, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" has genuinely helped me to reframe my thinking and approach to life. It has helped me to let go of things that don't matter and focus on what truly does. It has given me a sense of clarity and purpose that I didn't have before.Overall, I would highly recommend "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" to anyone looking for a practical and refreshing take on personal growth and self-improvement. It's a must-read for anyone who wants to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life. Five stars!

This book goes straight to the point as the titles suggests. It’s easy to read but yet deep. I really enjoyed and recommend it to those who take life and themselves too seriously. Just live and don’t GAF!

I gave way too many Fs. Always have. I LOVE the fact that this book has given me a relatable way to ask myself “why should I give a F about this?” With a fantastic framework behind me to support myself in that moment. Also the last page made me smile so much. The finality of that moment… beautiful. Perfect ending, Mark!

After reading a few self-help books, if they're good, you start noticing trends of similar ideas or the same idea presented in different ways. I kind of feel like this book does just that. What it does it in a non-psychobabble or very non-traditional self-help way. It's like if you ask a friend for advice and they just told you bluntly to your face what you needed to hear. There were several times I thought, "I've heard this stuff before just not like this." But that's life. Sometimes we need to hear things several times before it really sinks in and we need to hear it from multiple people in various ways. Outstanding read.

What's that? A book changed my life? Nonsense!! Well, actually that's true, it DID change my life. Here's a very long review which I feel needs to be addressed, as many people don't know what the book is about, give it a 1-star rating and shrug it off as a money-grab scheme using foul language as a means to bait audiences. Which I honestly first thought it was.-----------------------------------I have to admit, I wasn't convinced (ignorant, you could say) of all these self-help books people lavish over, I honestly thought it was a load of hippy crap as a means to make a quick buck... Although after a bout of depression last year (yea the "D" word get's thrown around alot these days), I myself was seeking out therapy. I was recommended this author and discovered this book. After asking myself "If this doesn't work, I'll just try something else" I figured I had nothing to lose.And WOW. This book really changed my perspective on things and ultimately I feel much better and improved! Not 100%, but I'm getting there slowly.As you could tell from the title, the author isn't shy of using profanity, and I like this. I've read other self-help books and while they're good and all, Mark Manson really engages you on a personal level. Imagine going to the doctor, and he's been all professional... but a tad boring and nearly sends you to sleep. Now imagine the same doctor taking you to the bar, having a pint and a laugh, but telling you the same advice. Who would you connect with better? Yea, I thought so.Controversial title aside, the book isn't about just not giving a damn, but about focusing WHAT to not give a damn about. Stop getting stressed about by what the media (and others) want us to be, not getting worked up by social media, stuff like that. Instead, focus the damns on the important stuff: family, friends, your well being.The book does take a while to pick up, with the early chapters focusing on examples of people who you may or may not relate to, or even care about. It can start to drag on, but eventually, Mr. Manson really dives into the meat of the book, and asks yourself to challenge your beliefs. Knowing that you're not always right all the time. Not denying your own flaws by redirecting the blame onto other people when challenged (many people are guilty of this). Acknowledging you're not perfect and rolling with it. Realising your emotions and problems aren't exclusive: nearly everyone in the world will have experienced what you felt at some point in their lives.Real stuff that actually helps you come to terms with yourself and not inflating your ego, or doing some tantric yoga exercises to unlock your inner chi circles. Real stuff.I consider this book my bible: I read certain parts every now and then to maintain my self improvement, it gives me solace during times where I'm feeling down, and I harrass my Instagram followers by posting snippets of the pages. I've even brought several copies for friends who were going through a rough time.-----------------------------------TLDR: this book helped me out, connects with you on an unconventional level, and ultimately offers brilliant advice that helps improve yourself and hopefully others around you. Highly recommended!PS. It's a MASSIVE shame that certain individuals refuse to fully read the book due to liberal use of the F word. I'd say that's the whole point: letting go of your "I'm entitled so I'm offended" beliefs and challenging yourself to overcome this personal stigma to improve your outlook on life.

Annoyed that I spent gift voucher money on this... very anecdotal & subjective, no references just purely blog dross. No scientific backing, just millennial hipster junk really! Really disappointed :(

This book is a game changer. It makes you think in a way you never have.. Must read for people who think they are depressed, 'something is wrong with me',, 'why me' type of questions.. Trust me there is nothing wrong with you.. an eye opener for me truly. Just order it already !!!

Overrated. Didn't like it much. There were times I felt the author is contradicting himself. In the first few pages he tries hard to convey the message that you are plain average but towards the end of the book he conveys the opposite - that you are special :) It is different from other self-help books in the way that it doesn't glorify you as someone who is unique and one of a kind. He says that feeling entitled is the reason why people care about unimportant things the way they do. So don't get confused by the title (like I did), the entire book is more about how to not take yourself so seriously.P.S: If you are looking to feel good, this might not be your cup of tea.

It is a pirated print.Not expected from Amazon.This print is available on footpath for Rs. 100. Feel cheated.